I became quite observant these days about the basic elements that might make us unhappy and egoist. One of them that I am going to write down now is about misunderstanding. Sometimes we assume that something has happened because of somebody by just blindly and readily listening to our (intelligence) mind’s conclusion. This starts enmity with the other person virtually. We will have that in mind and we act accordingly with that person. This goes on and on ….and makes you unhappy and lead to vulnerable relationships. So before readily listening to your intelligence, if you just confirm that “why that has happened” you can avoid all the conflicts. So before assuming about any thing please confirm why something has happened before jumping in to conclusions. Misunderstanding is a result of your intelligence sometimes.

First time I am facing problem here and I could not able to put flow of my thoughts about this topic in to the blog. I will come back again in a different post to explain why we have to insult our intelligence :-) :-)