The days have changed. Once a fact that guys have much control and dominant over relationship with girls, but now, days have a different picture. Girls started to think and “its better to dump than getting dumped” was their tag line now. They have tuned their mindset according to current racy world. Now girls are in the same position whatever guys used to be in the past. They don’t care to date one more guy if they were not interested with the previous guy. The separation is initiated from the girl’s side if she is no longer happy. This is the same trend from a celebrity girl to a normal girl.  These days guys are being emotional and imbibing the qualities that girls used to possess.

Its no longer a surprise for me when super senior of my college asked me to inquire about a girl in some college before his engagement. Earlier girls or girl’s parents used to do the same job. In one my friends friend’s marriage alliance, the girl demanded salary slip. The guy was shocked and he would be expecting that in a different way from their parents. Girls have their own priorities and preferences as they realized that they are less to none and competing in every aspect. In one of my distant relatives alliance, girl rejected guy on spot (these things rarely happens in south. so its surprise).  When one of my friends is searching for a suitable girl in matrimony sites, almost every girl seeking bachelor settled in US, UK etc with CTC mentioned sometimes. Its a trend that one should not be surprised or shocked as it is going to prevalent across entire India very soon.

So guys….be careful. keep the momentum and make yourself fit in any situation.

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-A Poor Guy

(inspired by indiatimes article)