Funny Ponders

Hey..I dont like him….I hate him….I hate the way he/she talks..hating …hating these are so common in everyone’s life. Someway, somehow, somewhere they hate something or someone. We start hating the other person if we dont like his actions, talk or whatever he has been doing. So we had a picture in mind that how everything should be? If the other person does not behave according to what you like…hating starts. If the thing does not work in you way you start hating taht. This is the funda behind hating. Our mind is programmed over a time what is right and what is wrong? We are not mature enough to edit our knowledge. So whatever the other person does falls in your wrong list of things or you dont like..you start hating. But look from a broader view. The same thing holds good for whatever things happen to you in life. When you have pre-defined set of things which you like and dont dislike, unhappiness is inevitable. Its better that your mind should be software rather than hardware. Stop hating, liking and disliking but experience whatever the things may be and however the things may be. If sorrow happens in your life dont dislike it but experience it. There is a great Zen saying which states that ” Feel the sorrow inside your heart, draw energy from the eastern rising sun and the warrior prepares a cup of tea”. What it means is : Feel the sorrow whatever you have inside your heart but dont get stuck or disappointed with the state you are in and get up, fill up your soul with fresh energy like how sun rises everyday. But in doing all these things dont miss small small things. The warrior has to face a war where he might lose his life in serving for his country but he is preparing and not missing his cup of tea. Understand the saying deeply and feel, experience everything……….

Yesterday I was happy when I heard the news that my closest friend is going to become father. He was my classmate in bachelors and he got married 5 months back. So at least in my friends circle, I can say the next generation is out. I am just wondering how the days are passing. I still remember those childhood days…..hmmm…nostalgia. Dont want to bore the readers. Also I heard so many friends are already on the track of getting married. So the days are very near where we will see the next youthful generation. I have spent 24 years of life in academic education and a few months old in corporate life. Half of the life spent in studying and other half in handling responsibilities. Where is the self enjoyment? Where are we heading? These are the questions which bother me often. The biggest impending mandatory custom is marriage. Somehow the interest for marriage which I have 2 years back is slowly getting faded. I am in a state of fear when somebody talks about marriage before me. After marriage I think the total mind set of an individual might change. Forgetting a few months of enjoyment with spouse, the rest of the life is devoted to family. Where is the time where we are doing something that satisfy the real human being inside you. Just passing among the milestones (study, job, marriage , children….) that are already fixed on your life track I am just a witness to the things happening. Me, we, I, ours………this the world so far. I have a long desire to do something for the society. I can frankly say that I have not spent enough bucks or service intentionally for the society except sympathizing. We have been taking so many things from it and forgetting to contribute to its welfare.  I can remember a wonderful line from telugu lyricist saying RUNAM TEERCHU TARUNAM VASTEY TAPPINCHUKU POTUNNAVA (You are just escaping when the time has arrived for you to  pay back to the society).  Poor translation…..got the essence?…go ahead.   Everybody feels, sympathizes it but that is not needed at all. It might satisfy your human side but leads no where. Just waiting…..what can I do to kill the selfishness and devote for the well being of my society. I am really sure that this will happen so soon as I am already committed to do it. After my self got satisfied I will go to the rest of the routine life trap where I end up as usual as all.

Yeah….dont use logic….dont comment ….dont feel bore…this is my blog I have rights to write whatever I can. It might start somewhere and end up somewhere else. Just translating the flow of thoughts in to English letters on a platform called blog. Just motivating myself to contribute for the good deed.

Another blockbuster from farahkhan made theaters in pune crowded even on week-days. Me and my room mate could not get tickets even on wednesday.  Finally we got on sunday to watch the movie.  I did not feel bored except for a couple of scenes in the second-half. Overall my rating is above average. Deepika padukone attracted a lot for the moments she appeared on the screen.  I could not prevent myself in praising this girl. Innocence, beauty, performance……..blended in to deepika which made my head unturned while she was on screen.  She might have already heart throbbed  so many people.  Coming to Sharukh …….his action undoubtedly amazing. I am not here to write a review as there people else where to jot upon the movie. One dialogue that caught my attention was…………Every life should have a happy ending like a movie. If the happiness is not there, the movie is yet to complete. I tried explaining in the way whatever I can with my mediocre english. In hindi it stands worth if you hear. English experts can give their true explanation in the comments of this post.

My roommate navrose called me. I lifted the phone and he started telling about an interesting thing happened at our flat. Apparently the solar heaters on top of the building started working and hot water all over the taps. My friend …poor guy….generally wakes up when the sun is at its highest peak. Unaware of hot water in taps, he directly went to attend the nature’s call. Imagine …..what happened next…he screamed…..oh…. I am in the office and cannot stop laughing loudly after listening his words.  I told this to my colleagues they laughed like anything. :):)

Fate keeps on testing us one way or the other. It was just few months back that I enjoyed getting placed in a top software firm. Now the pleasure and enjoyment of work at the place has changed to most hapless state. Due to some revenue problems the company has started layoffs which might effect a huge number of individuals. The target apparently was a huge number. A mail from the senior person everyday triggers a new form of disappointment. One can say “If not this try something”. This is always there and an alternative. Just trying to express one’s individual state.  Things move when there is fire always at the back. This is true especially in my case. This is always the case with software firms…nobody knows what next. We cannot take things granted for here. Thats why enjoy today as if there is no tomorrow. One should be used to such kind of environments and get along with things. Just waiting!!!! whats our company administration next step????????